What is cunnilingus? Well simply said, it is oral stimulation of the clitoris and vulva with the tongue and/or lips.
In recent surveys it has been reported that between seventy five perecent to ninety six percent of women feel that oral sex is their favourite methd of being pleasures. And no wonder, since the clitoris contains 8 000 nerve endings!
Many women say that they climax more easily and better from oral sex than penetration.
Communication during any sex is important, but doubly so during oral sex. Ask your partner what she likes (and more importantly what she doesn’t like). Make sure that both of you are in a comfortable position. You don’t want to have to change position later on and then loose the rhythm. Nothing breaks a near orgasm as quickly and effectively as breaking the rhythm….
In the beginning, start with light pressure and a lot of saliva (to help with lubrication). Your girl’s clitoris is extremely sensitive and does not create lubrication of its won. Start slowly and take your time to appreciate her body. Don’t start too aggressively, you don’t want to over stimulate her from the start.
Lick the inner and outer labia (lips). Try different strokes and see what your woman prefers. Then pay some attention to the clitoral hood, moving side to side or in different combinations. You can also move from the clitoris to the vaginal opening.
Find the one movement that drives her wild and keep going. It doesn’t matter if you get tired, if your tongue wants to fall off, if you can’t breath. Keep going consistently and rhythmically with the movement that has her moaning for you.
Your girl should guide you with her hands or words, but do not feel shy to ask. You do not need to have a clinical conversation, but you do not to feel free to say yes or no.
Every women is also unique in when she needs you to stop what you are doing. Some like stimulation right up to orgasm and some want you to continue during and even after orgasm. But it depends on person to person.
Often women enjoy penetration at the same time. You can use your finger, a vibrator or a dildo. You can also stimulate her nipples during oral sex.
Suck her labia and clitoris and do not hesitate to penetrate her with your tongue. You will be having her crawling up the walls.
Some good positions are the classic women on her back, to have her sit on your face or the well know 69. Laying sideways using her thigh as a pillow is a great position for pregnant women (because the fact that you and your partner are having a family does not mean you should not help her relax a bit).
From being allows great access and great sensation. I myself am not particular to this though, because I do not enjoy too much pressure on my anterior wall.
Be Safe
Please do not make the mistake of thinking that lesbians cannot pick up sexually transmitted diseases. This is an absolute myth.
And while oral sex may be a safer method of having sex, there are still risks attached.
Menstruating women are still bleeding and you have cuts or sores on your lips or in your mouth you are susceptible to HIV or AIDS. Herpes as well as genital wars can transmitted during oral sex.
It is very important to communicate with your partner to assess the risks involved. Discuss your medical history and be sure to warn your partner should there be anything that she should be worrying about.
Should this only be for casual sex you can use a latex barrier, such as a dam for safer sex. If you use a lot of lubrication underneath the dam you will have greater success.
Do not be afraid to experiment. Try stimulating the various pressure points along the top of the pubic mound or in the crease where the thigh meets the body. Tease her inner thighs and use heat or cold to increase the excitement of the moment. You can use a hot or cold drink to change the temperature of your mouth. You could also be very naughty and try some ice. Please be careful no to leave the ice in one position too long and do not leave it inside the vagina, as it might cause ice burns where she definitely does not want to be hurt. And this should go without saying, but a girl can never be too careful: under no circumstances bite your women anywhere while doing oral sex. It is very tender skin and will not handle abuse kindly.
Can you have oral sex during menstruation?
Absolutely! But it obviously depends on personal choice. If neither you nor your partner have a problem with menstrual blood, there is no reason why you should not have a brilliant sex life during either your menstrual cycles. A tampon or a diaphragm can also help to stem the flow of blood. Please note that any contact with blood can transmit HIV/AIDS and it is important to know that you and your partner are both safe.
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